But that's okay -- I'm just glad people are hearing the story even if it's the Cliff's Notes version. Plus, I sure won't be the one to tell the pageant director there won't be any frankincense next year.
While we mark the arrival of the Magi on January 6th, the reality is we don't actually know when they showed up. In fact it may have been years later assuming they didn't start traveling from the East (probably modern day Iran) until the birth itself when the star appeared. Camels aren't exactly built to set land speed records.
Oh, and they weren't really kings either. More like astrologers or scientists who worshipped and sought truth in a variety of ways. They were respected for their wisdom and spiritual insight but it's not like they were "real" kings like, say, Herod.
One thing is clear: they never showed up at the manger as popular legend would have it. Matthew's gospel makes this clear: "And going into the house they [the Magi] saw the child with Mary his mother, and they fell down and worshiped him. Then, opening their treasures, they offered him gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh" (Matthew 2:11). Going into the house! Which makes sense since surely the Holy Family didn't stay in that stable for too long.
By the time the Magi made it to the party, perhaps Jesus was finally sleeping through the night (let's face it, that first night might have been holy but, as any parent knows, there was surely nothing "silent" about it). Still, the gold, frankincense, and myrrh? Lousy baby gifts by any standard. I'm sure Mary was really hoping for some diapers, a few onesies, and a binky.
A couple of years ago, just for fun, I started wondering about what kept the three kings from making an on-time arrival. I scoured many sources and came up with the following possibilities:
1. Balthazar took forever doing his hair while Caspar and Melchior sat on their camels and stewed.
2. The holiday traffic on the way into Bethlehem was dreadful.
3. Four words: goats in the road.
4. The Star of Bethlehem (the original GPS) kept saying "recalculating" and they found themselves in a sketchy part of town.
5. Caspar drank way too much water at the first oasis which meant an extra long stop at the Molly Pitcher rest stop.
6. Untying fancy sandals to go through the TSA checkpoint took a long time. Retying them took forever.
7. Due to poor behavior on the part of the other two kings, Melchior had to pull over more than once to yell, "If you don't stop fighting I'm going to turn this caravan right around!"
8. Stopping at the Holiday Inn slowed them down because, in a precursor to today's "culture wars," Balthazar kept insisting the name should be changed to "Christmas Inn."
9. "I told you that stop at Herod's house was a waste of time."
10. They took a vote and decided to take their sweet time getting to the manger so they would have a day all to themselves on the Church calendar.
I'm not sure you'd find any scriptural warrant for this list. But then again you'd find the same basis for assuming the Magi showed up at the manger.
I wish you all a blessed Epiphany. How great that it coincides with Sunday morning this year!